What makes a man? Don't believe the hype!

The "Hollywood" Effeminate Male vs. the Man of Character. When I say the Hollywood Effeminate Male, I'm not just talking about the fellas that dress funny, have limp wrists and slur their words... I'm talking about every male character that we find in the modern media.

This blog is primarily for the ladies (women hold the majority of cards in most relationships). I would like to help them identify the contradictions that are being handed to them via the media and the movies. We have become so attached to our favorite characters that most of us haven't realized that this is mental programming of our subconscious mind. Many are so attached to these flawed illusions of manhood they have adopted them to serve as their friends over the people they mingle with in the real world. The fact is we live in a consumer driven society where happiness is the product being sold. They can't sell happiness to happy people. So a sub-industry has evolved that quietly conditions people to give up on the happiness in their own lives by dumbing them down to the point that they now are no longer independent but dependent. To do this, logic and reasoning has been replace by ego and emotion. It's the modern personality ethic of looks and appearance matter more that substance and character.

So why do I get sick every time I turn on the television or watch the average movie? Because I see the subtle and sometimes blatant process that goes on. The contradictions within the composition of the characters on the screen that supposedly represents manhood. I am saddened by all the little boys and girls whose innocent minds are led down this path... and even more saddened by all the suffering that is perpetuated in the world by this illusion.

Below is 20 characteristics of a man. In each case, not all, I would suggest that if you put any particular movie or TV character up against it, you will find that they fall on the negative side of many of these characteristics. And these are what most men and women idolize. That is a mistake and a very solid reason why most live confused drama filled miserable lives.